15 October, 2012

Crazy world…… when will you learn?


A shocking matter that is being discussed all over India these days caught my attention also. Seventeen girls were raped last month in the state of Haryana in North India. Haryana is the state where I lived three years working with my colleagues in the village. We were mainly concentrated on working for the upliftment of the women. (Haryana is the state famous for female feticide as the census 2011 terms the female male ratio as 830 females to 1000 males). So this news affected me. Later I went into the matter more and then I read in other reports that from 2007 an average of fifty women are raped every month here[1]. Most of them who are raped are Dalit[2] (low caste) women.

More than the shocking news, I was astonished, startled and disappointed to hear the solutions put forward by the Khap Panjayaths[3]. (It is a social political administration or organization which tries to protect the caste rules and imposed regulations of the society. They are mainly in the states of Rajasthan, Haryana and Uttar Pradesh).

The solutions are very strange and they never address about the inequality of women and the caste discrimination. Some of the solutions were the following.

Marry off the girls at an age of 15.
Stop eating fast foods, as these foods increase the sexual hormones in women.
Teach the girls some self-defense techniques such as Judo, karate, etc.
Child marriage[4]

So bizarre, unreasonable, foolish and illogical are the solutions. Still they are blaming heavily the victims of rape for the incidents. Even one Haryana Congress leader Dharambir Goyat[5] blamed women telling that 90% of rapes occur due to consensual sex. West Bengal state chief minister Mamta Banerjee[6] said that Rapes are happening because men and women are interacting more freely. And so in this pattern goes the blame.

But no one except the NGO workers and social activists demand to punish the rapists. No one thinks of doing anything to eradicate the social inequality or to make rules to stop oppressing low caste people by the high caste people.

The dream of equality of women and social equality among all people still remains in the words of constitution which came into force in 1949. So the untouchability and discrimination exists in most parts of India, especially in North India. I am also a witness and victim to this to a certain extent when I was in North India engaging in the social work. Thank the rapists, at least they treat Dalit women without any discrimination and touch too much. Crazy world.

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